Saturday, February 7, 2015

Lance Armstrong

A few years ago I met a man who read only non-fiction. He said there are too many amazing true stories to spend time reading make believe. Part of me agreed with that idea and I began focusing my reading on non-fiction as well, beginning with It's Not About the Bike by Lance Armstrong.

What an inspiring story. I was genuinely impressed. 
Fighting cancer, winning the Tour de France seven times.
What a legend.

Then years later, the truth comes out.
He cheated his way to victory.

So here I am caught in a dilemma... How many non-fiction books that I read should really be considered fiction? Lance Armstrong wrote an international bestseller, spent years lying to the world, and essentially became a hero because of those lies.

How many other people get away with similar dishonesty every single day? There was a similar scandal with author Greg Mortenson and his book Three Cups of Tea.

The deceit is disheartening. Especially because it highlights a lack of integrity throughout all of society.  How many people lie to my face each day and I believe them? Is it naive to be a trusting person? Is it better to be a skeptic or a cynic? Is that what kind of society we want to create?

Unfortunately, many pressures exist to encourage dishonesty. 
Admitting to a lie can be harder than being honest in the first place.
Lance deserves respect for taking accountability.

I hope we are creating a world that allows people to change.
I hope we are remembering that we are all imperfect.
I hope Lance Armstrong has another Journey Back to Life, this time keeping his integrity.


Thursday, February 5, 2015

Feminism

What a controversial topic.
Everyone has something to say about the role of women.

Stay home and cook.
Keep up with men in the workplace.
Have babies.
Work from home.
Start your own company.
Clean the house.


Women aren't more or less depending on their chosen lifestyle.
The most important part is that it is a choice.
Women deserve to be valued just because they exist.
Nobody needs to be criticized or accused for staying home with their family.
Nor do they need to feel guilty for pursuing a career.

Feminism needs to be defending the right of women to choose their own lifestyle. 

Whether that lifestyle includes working, marrying, being religious, having a family, making decisions alone, or allowing their significant other to lead their home...
This is a choice women have and a choice that deserves respect.

"Find common ground rather than dwelling on our differences."